Tuesday, May 25, 2010

the perfect man.


women may be asked what their perfect guy would be ...
most women would say typical boring shyte like..
loyal funny strong passionate ambitious caring spontaneous nice sensitive safe
blah
blah
blah ...
but after thinking about it. all these traits seem to contradict each other in some way or the other..

a woman may want a man to be strong and uphold a manly persona
while also being caring and compassionate.
then at other times women want their man to be spontaneous and funny
while also wanting their 'perfect man' to be safe or predictable.

thinking it over...
there's no such thing as
THE PERFECT GUY that has perfected all these traits women want..
but more of the idea that women want a man with PERFECT PERCEPTION
all the skills / traits I have mentioned are all important, but the key to the perfect guy isn't that he's mastered every single one of these skills a women desires but that he has the perception and that skill to know when it's the best time to unleash the
PERFECT trait for a particular situation.

the timing... the perception.. = important.
well. that's just what I think :)